Saturday, July 24, 2010

Sharing Favorites at Dinner

If you’ve read my previous posts, you know that I love-make that LOVE traditions. BUT, there is something I LOVE even more.

I LOVE combining traditions WITH food.

Back in my teaching days, I’d have my 1st graders form a circle on the carpet. We would take turns going around the circle sharing our “bubble up” (good thing) that happened at school for that day. The kids eagerly anticipated Bubble Up and expressed their utter disappointment if we ran out of time and could not squeeze it in at the end of the day.

Now that I’m at home with my boys, I take as many opportunities to infuse my teaching experiences with my mommy moments. I fervently believe in family dinners. With our nutty schedules that keep us preoccupied, I hold onto the old tradition of sitting with your loved ones and sharing a meal and meaningful conversation together. Kids need that time to connect. Moms and Dads do, too.

As we begin eating Kevin and I look at our children and observe which boy is showing the best table manners (elbows off the table, chewing with their mouths closed, etc.) May I say this is a much better tactic for teaching table manners than nagging? Trust me, I tried that 1st.

Once one of the boys is chosen, we ask, “What was your favorite today?” They answer, “My favorite is…” Sometimes we give everyone a moment to think of their favorite before we pick a kiddo to start so they don’t ponder their answer and make the other kids wait. Once the 1st family member shares, they have to look at the next person (of their choice), address him/her by their name, and ask, “What was your favorite?”

Not only does it give Kevin and I insight into their days, it teaches them important life skills.

“Favorites” has become a major favorite in our house. Try it tonight and let me know how it goes.

Cheers to your favorites!

2 comments:

missmehoneybee said...

LOVE that idea! So sweet.

Tooje said...

I have got to be better about doing the full table dinner. We've gotten in a habit where we sit and watch America's Funniest Videos together while having dinner. While we share and laugh together at the silliness, I miss the tradition we started here, similar to yours. We'd go around the table and everyone gets a chance to state what was the best part of their day, and what was the worst. My favorite part of this was when they couldn't think of a worst moment. :)

I think this tradition will be in full effect come the start of the school year. Hopefully so will my habit of making dinners. I'm such a slacker right now while I'm on maternity leave.

I'm blog hopping tonight. Happy Monday!